To me its necessary to maintain a hard line of positivity, because if nobody does this, we will never achieve it, and if we never achieve it, we will stay with what is a negative, self destroying system as stands.

There is no halfway house in terms of physical energy, if we sum mathematically negative and positive energies, we get zero, which is an impossiblity in the presence of life, which always has to have energy, with which to create, or destroy.

But I can understand when folk have to give in, when it comes to a potentially self denying question of loving relationships, sometimes our loved ones unwittingly try to force us to make a decision, to give up our positivity hard line, at threat of a kind of emotional blackmail, that they do unwittingly as agents of the negative powered system, which is alive, and we are all energy slaves of it, until we can break out of it, if we ever do, but the penalty for not breaking out of it, is literally physical armageddon, a burning, flooding planet, not only for us but for our loved ones.

I explain why this is true from a purely scientific / engineering point of view in the sum of my own stories in Medium.

Sometimes we have to be cruel to be kind, not only to others but to ourselves.

I wish you all the best, but I hope most folk believing in positivity will not give up their hard line. It's actually existentially important, it seems to me.

https://www.amazon.com/Interview-Ai-Part-Multiplier-Framework-ebook/dp/B0CHGFKQVB