Sorry but you cannot be human from behind a mask, its not possible. You remoted yourself to a drone by removing your own skin from all consequences to you, that you might perceive of the conversation. No way do you understand what it feels like for others who have the courage to put their whole selves in the line, whilst you obviously didn't. You started with a dishonesty by withholding your identity. You can never make that up by supposedly sensible elucidations, you have to be prepared to put your whole physical self behind the things you say, to be fully honest.