Read some similar thoughts by someone who had written something about it from what I think might have been a buddhist point of view. This was my response (It probably wasn't the most tactical):

https://eric-bott.medium.com/if-youd-spent-some-time-explaining-the-reasoning-to-it-that-you-ve-given-here-for-why-it-got-some-dadfd19c8d85