I would love to not have a different opinion than thiis! But thanks for posting, putting your thoughts on it. To me there are times when we can't bury differences. So I might fit your definition of immature sometimes. The problem I see is that there is only one physical reality, at least at the practical level, and if it looks like the other party not understanding this is an existential mistake, affecting all of us, then it's hard for me to bite my tongue. I might then get irrational from frustration and try to use completely the wrong argument, to try to convince, given there are many ways to look at the same truth.