I think you've got the dynamics of not only virtual, but real world, pretty well worked out, thanks for posting :)
But you might have missed an actor in the virtual world which is maybe wiping the floor with all of us... Ai.
It is much cheaper than real women, and maybe much cleverer.
Like you, I hope the world changes to a more gentle version before too much longer.
I think it is, but not many seem to be recognising it yet. It comes with something I call Kardashev Money, that I've written about a lot, which is how I think we need to monetise sunlight, and are doing to some extent - we just haven't realised or embraced it yet.
But it is coming, I am sure about that :)