I share your experiences and frustrations, thanks for posting.
It might seem like there is nothing to blame except people, with violence being the only answer.
but I believe there is a simple non-violent solution, it fixes all of the problems, and it is coming.
Pretty much all of the real problems you have identified can be traced to our zero-sum economy, based on trading limited energy resources, it cannot accommodate unlimited energy.
Yet that is what we are starting to see, from solar power.
Pretty soon we will have to adopt a different kind of economy, based on the unlimited energy of the sun.
After that, everything will be different.
Don’t lose hope!