I hear ya. There are other voices out there who identify too.
You just gotta try to move above what you are seeing to understand what is driving it.
It isn't really a reflection on your family, they are afflicted by something much bigger than they understand.
We all are.
One day soon we will be able to all see it the same.
Until then, we just gotta make do with the way it is, a system screwing with everyone's head, in every possible way. Just for now some folk know it more than others.
After that, you won't need to use a pseudonym to say what is on your mind.
Meantime, don't let anyone put you off, keep saying what you wanna say.
Thanks for posting!